S-E-X

     Sex. Such a taboo subject, right? The topic that we all whisper about with our friends. But why are we whispering? We all think about it, eventually experience it, can relate to it. It's a normal part of day-to-day interaction. Without sex, there would be no human race! I felt the need to say something about this "unspeakable" subject since a lot of people are always giving me shit for being too open and sharing a little too much. Well, if you're one of those people...EXIT NOW!!! Here are a few bullet points I've discussed with some people before writing this blog...I wonder if you'll agree. 

     THE BEST SEX: When you are in love with someone and you share a vulnerability between the two of you, this can make for the best sex. An infatuation and a craving to be with one person only makes the experience that much greater. Some people like to be caressed and some people like to be slapped...but whatever your preference, you always want your partner to know what it is you like. And this is why I personally promote being with ONE partner. This one person will get to know you're likes, your dislikes, your ins and outs...no pun intended. (Okay, maybe a little.) But who am I to judge...a lot of people would disagree with me.  

     THE WORST SEX: I think we can all agree, however, that the worst sex would be when there is no kind of connection to the person you're laying next to...or on top of. Yeah, anyone can "lick you up and down, til you say stop"...but when all is said and done, how satisfied are you? Do you ever feel like you've just had sex with a cardboard box? There's no emotion involved, therefore, the passion and the lust that are lacking from this interaction could be the same elements that could have made this the BEST SEX of your life. And for you guys who leave the club with a different chick every weekend, and believe you're God's Gift to women because you THINK you're throwing down from all the moaning and groaning she's projecting...she's really just trying to sound satisfied so you'll get off of her sooner. She has no connection with you. She was just trying to get it in before the night is over...just like you. But I can gaurantee she isn't going to go back to her girls and say "Oh Em Gee...that was the best sex of my life." Maybe she'll say "He had nice fabric in his backseat...my butt didn't get cold." 

Winner, Winner...Chicken Dinner. 

-J

"Sex is emotion in motion."-Mae West